The time has come

They say things only happen when you are ready and this I truely believe.

Looking back over the years you can start to see the pattern of your life and how it has turned out, was it what you hoped it would be?, did the things happen that you wanted to happen or was it completely different to what you thought?

Everything that happens has a reason, no matter what is was or is, and I always look for the reason.

Sometimes it's not always clear or easy especially if your going through a bad patch in your life or a stressfull situation.

The way I look at it is you can't see the calm when your in the eye of the storm, so wait for the dust to settle then look back and learn from the situation of what has happened.

Sometimes the same things happens over and over again and you may feel your trapped in a never ending story that you can't seem to get out of, well you can, but forst you have to work out what it is your not learning from, only by learning from an experience do you change it.