The Process of Mediumship

Process of Mediumship

As a psychic, the process of mediumship intruges me, now I don't actually call myself a medium, I use the term psychic clairvoyant, now as a psychic, a psychic works with the person or aura where as a medium works with the energy of people who have moved on to the next world, the spirit world, it's a bit like picking up the phone without dialing a number and hoping someone is on the other end in other words we have little to no control on the outcome of each session.

Each reading is unique and has it's own special and personal ear markings.
No , mediumship reading is alike and you will not experience it in the same way even twice.Mediums are as almost as varied as their readings. Each carrying their own unique style into the work.But there are some constants in mediumship that you should be made aware of.

VALIDATION : True mediumship seeks validation from the spirits that come through.There are many ways for a spirit to validate who they are to you. You, being the person that is receiving the reading and desiring the contact.
In mediumship circles the person or persons being read for are know as the sitter or sitters . You, as the sitter have a very special job during a reading .
By your personal knowledge or through the personal knowledge of others known to the spirit you can validate or invalidate certain information that comes forth as the result of a medium reading .
Some of this information can be validated during the course of a reading.
While some information may require validation after the reading with friends or other family members whom are privy to this certain info.
Here are some examples of ways in which a spirit may try to validate who they are :

Sometimes the medium will get the names very clearly or just the initial, why? Because not all mediums hear, some ‘sense’ the information, some are shown, the signal is a bit like morse code or a series of dashes the dashes being the information coming through the gaps the missing info or quite spots.

Also the spirit's personality traits may be described.

Most spirits are willing to show how they passed to the medium, how? Either by giving the medium a sense of the area that hurt before they passed or by showing them with pictures and symbols, or by telling them.

Often spirits will give important dates of reference to further validate themselves.They have been known to mention other family members. Sometimes calling them by name .They have also been known to mention a recent event even if small in your current life or other family members lives to show awareness of the here and now and their spiritual presence at the event.

They have been known to show past events.

They have even been known show their favourite flower , book , song or any favourite from their life or even yours.

And just to surprise us. They have even been known to find some really unique way of validating themselves that we probably have not even thought of yet.

All in all . the spirit may choose to use any of the above methods or even none of them. But they will find a way to validate themselves. Sometimes a sitter will hold out for a specific validation that they asked the spirit for in advance.
Sometimes this method works but also a lot of times it doesn't .
That is why it is very important not to place any preconceived expectations on the reading .
If you get your special validation great and if you do not , just know that it is not always possible. It is a good idea during a medium reading to take notes or even tape record the reading, but this is down to an individual as to if this is allowed.
Because you will want some kind of record of information received. And you will not want to depend on memory to help you sort out the information later .
One reason is because medium readings can have a over whelming effect initially and you would most likely forget more than you remembered. A medium reading is and always should be considered a special event in a person's life.

Just remember it’s not like being a rock star or an actor, who have spent age learning their lines or rehearsing their music, when a medium starts a reading be it in public or private, they start with nothing! and only have the trust in spirit and themselves that something will happen, no more and no less.

A psychic can switch it on, without fail, every time, working mediums have my utmost respect.

Card of the Week 4

This week, we have another reading for you from Angeleyes, and again includes mediumship, this weeks reading includes a spirit connection for someone who will read this post at some point in the near future.

Please do leave feedback if you feel this was meant for you as many mediums (myself included) rarely get feedback and is nice to know the person in the spirit world has found their receipent, last weeks reading had only been posted a few hours when we received an e-mail from the person who the reading was for, at their request we have not copied the e-mail to the site and respect their wishes.

If you saw the previous reading your will know this reading or card is meant for who ever see's it whatever day or week that may be, to re-cap see Card of the Week 1 and the post on synchronicity


Simplify your life
Eliminate clutter from your home and life
To balance the flow of activities.

Everything in your head is becoming very jumbled, you don’t know which way to turn.
But it is not only in your mind, it’s your home life to.
Although you are a happy person, who doesn’t really worry about the state of the house and what other people think, even you are getting annoyed about the mess, but there is never enough time to clear it up.
You are a very spiritual person with great healing ability although you are a very laid back person you also have a heart of gold. Life for you is very fast.
You are continually up to something and very much a free spirit, although you can be a bit of a dreamer. There is always something new and exciting going on.
You are being guided by angel Gabrielle this time and there are many more steps to climb before you reach your goal, but you aren’t in any great hurry.
You have a love for nature, trees and wild life.

I feel I have a gentleman with me. He is a father/grandfather. I feel he had a moustache at some point in his life. He was a tall man with dark hair (in his younger days) very up right, slender man, who would wear a suit a lot. I feel he was on mother’s side of the family and I am hearing the words, city gent.
He passed away at home, peacefully in his sleep and was 84 years old. I feel there was a condition with him, but it had nothing to do with his passing.
He comes with loads of love for you, and says sorry for not always being there for you.
He is glad to see you so happy, but please sort yourself out, your home life is a mirror image of your mind, you cant come to any conclusion in your mind until the house is tidy, then sit with a cup of tea and he will be there to help with the answers to your problems.
This gentleman mentions mother’s day and asks, did you forget? You did not do what you usually do.
The gentleman tells me he will come to you again and help you clear your mind.

Your reading was taken from oracle cards Magical Mermaids and Dolphins by Doreen Virtue.

Angeleyes xx


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Card of the Week 3

This week, we have another reading for you from Angeleyes, in case it's not already been said on this site, angeleyes is also a very good spiritual medium, that is she works with the spirit world to give valid messages to those still here on earth, this weeks reading includes a spirit connection for someone who will read this post at some point in the near future.

Please do leave feedback if you feel this was meant for you as many mediums (myself included) rarely get feedback and is nice to know the person in the spirit world has found their receipent.

If you saw the previous reading your will know this reading or card is meant for who ever see's it whatever day or week that may be, to re-cap see Card of the Week 1 and the post on synchronicity


Daughter of wands
Luxury

I see a lady, who has come a long way on her path. This is a very spiritual lady who appears to be care free now, with a lovely home, money in the bank and lots of vitality and love to give.
There is a holiday abroad coming up, possibly Egypt, I do see pyramids and I get an Egyptian feel with this card.

From the past their has been two relationships that have not worked out, and it has taken a great deal of self care to get yourself back up on to your feet and ready to face the world again.
The past has gone now although you still have your memories, but in time they will get easier.
This is the new you, new life, new home and a new spiritual adventure.
Try a new hobby, look in to a crystal ball, be wild, and let your imagination flow.
Life is full of great opportunities, start taking some for yourself.

I have a lady in spirit with me, she would have had indigestion a lot and I feel a burning sensation in wind pipe/ chest area.
She was around 62 years old when she passed. Although I feel she looked older and she was also quite frail. I get the names of Margaret, Sue and Juliet connected with her.
She said “she feels, she passed before her time”. And that you were especially good to her. Always laughing and joking, you were her ray of sunshine, even though your life was difficult at the time.
She tells me, she is pleased you have found happiness again in your life and that life is looking up for you, keep smiling, the angels are with you.

Your reading this week was with the tarot cards, The Compass, Guild to the quest tarot. Joseph Ernest Martin.




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A pub with more than one kind of Spirit!

It's been one of those days today, the weather has been damp and cold all day and the rain seems to of carried on and on we never got round to turning off the lights as the dark clouds never really lifted, one of those days you really don't want to be outside, so we lit the log burner and stayed in.

This afternoon brought together a meeting with two of our group to discuss how the psychic evening, later in the month is to be scheduled, it's the second one we are doing at this venue and we have decided to change the format slightly, last time it was I that done the stand up mediumship demonstration, and feel someone else should do it this time so I can do the private tarot readings along with a few others, the evening is actually in a PUB and I was once told working a pub is one of the hardest venues to do, I agree, but how better to hone your readings!

Standing up in front of 40 odd people to do spirit messages requires and lot of trust and belief in not only yourself but those 'beyond the veil' and even more so when your audience has had a drink!

We have now got our front medium booked for the night and now I can work on the private readings for the night ( which we are doing at the same time as the main demo) I've got to be honest I prefer to do the one to one, and have my trusty Tarot cards to hand.


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